In your honest opinion, is there a chance?

So my "first love" broke up with me a little over a month ago after 2 years. I am only 19 and she is 18. She left me for another guy that she was freinds with and I was okay with that because I trusted her. The guy is not the kind you would want to bring around family and I got along with all of her family.





Well we went about 2 weeks with no talking, then some small talk. Another 1.5 weeks went by and we started talking about everything. We started talking about my "rebound girl" and things got heated and she said she didn't want to talk to me until I am mature, when her current boy friend dropped out of high school, not in college, and working at Pappa Johns.





So I talked to her cousin and her cousin told me that she thought I was a douche and told her family to not talk to me. Appearently they are already "in love" but she hasn't boasted as much as he has on face book, myspace, etc.





SO! In your honest opinion is there any chance in the near future, far future, now?

In your honest opinion, is there a chance?
A chance for what? A chance that you are a douche? Definitely!! I'm not sure why you want her back especially after she dumped you for another guy. If you did get her back she would probably just leave you again and you'd always be worried everytime you ordered out for pizza.
Reply:i would say leave her alone. she does not know what she lost!Move on. when she sees you interested in someone else, she will be back.
Reply:u would have a chance..but u need to spend a lot of time apologizing to her even if it aint ure fault..just do it..women like to hear we r right..actually everyone likes to hear they r right...u have a chance, but its gonna take a lot of work..good luck
Reply:Is there a chance for what?





I hope to God you don't mean is there a chance you guys could possibly get back together, because you shouldn't even want the least possible thing to do with this girl.





There is a great chance that she's effectively ruined her life by getting with this loser. If I ever have to work at a pizza place, may I be striked dead.





She's pissed because she's already realized that she's not going to do any better than the lame piece of crap she's with now. Let her get mad.





You shouldn't care.





Forget her. Stop looking at Myspace, Facebook, talking to her family. Most importantly, stop talking to her.





You are only 19. In 20 years, you'll have a hard time even remembering her or the relationship.





Remember: A first love is just that. The first of many and not the only one.