Does this happen 2 u???

this evening i went to my friend house to collect a book n he made me wait in his hose for around 20 minutes..


in these 20 minutes his mom dad n grandmother kept on askin me questions like "what ur dad does".. "whts ur combination in college"... and many many many other questions..


i was answerin their question quite ok but i started SWEATING like anythin .. finally his mother asked her son 2 get me a glass of water n a towel so that i can wipe off all d sweat from my face n this was very embarassing ...





pls suggest me wht can i do bout this???


n in case u wanted 2 kno i am 18yrs studyin 12th commerce..

Does this happen 2 u???
You are sweating only becasue you are embarassed and confused. At the outset, you do not like such questions from such senior people and you have not expected them to ask you such silly questions when you had gone there only to get a book. Since you can not change others, it is better you change/adjust to situations like that. Expect anyone to ask you anything at any given time and you will not get embarassed or confused. Give straight answers to their questions as you have nothing to hide. After answering two or three questions, you would excuse them and go to your friends room to talk to him. Thats all you have to do. In future you will get over it. Do not worry.
Reply:Avoid going to this friend's house.
Reply:it is the normal and stupid way of Indian life. sorry u cant escape from this. our elders, normally, are too inquisitive about every one else, especially their children s friends.


dont worry when u grow up and have a teen age child u may also end up doing the same thing





be indian act indian





jai hind
Reply:why did your friend make you wait for 20 mins????


he/she should have a serious talk with his family to mind their own business adn ask any questions directly from him.





why were you embarassed. the family should be for not treating their guest with enough courtesy.





future - find another arrangement for that book
Reply:sounds like they want to fix u with him
Reply:You seem to have a low self confidence level. Try to face up to probing questions with confidence. It would help you to face a job interview board too.
Reply:forget that. life is too short to think about such futile incidents.


as u told u r 18 and and studying, u dont need to think about this. this is a very important stage of your life, think about things which are important and useful. dont waste time bro!
Reply:its because your nervous... and confused!
Reply:hi!!! well you were sweating cuz you were nervous since all the questions came out of the blue and you were not expecting a questionnaire. so relax no big deal, however i think they were trying to find out if you are a good match for your friend. first the family background then the horoscope match and finally marriage, right. if you are not interested in him like a husband let him know that so it won't happen again. well good luck in your personal life and your studies, hope this helps*=).
Reply:it is not so uncommon many parents like 2 meet their children's friend may be 2 know wether there child's friend is good by nature or not
Reply:any pareants will ask to know what what his friend doing etc. his background etc. this is normal so dont worry.
Reply:Hey kid, you were just nervous while answering the questions. This happens with practically many people. There is nothing to worry. Next time when you are in such a situation, relax and answer the questions in a relaxed manner. Just be your self. You don't have to impress upon anybody with your answers and things will be fine.
Reply:Hi,


Yes, it does happen as we will not be instate to answer the questions specifically. This is the reason we either give answer or we keep mum. In this situation you need to be calm %26amp; cool, as you will not find difficulty to answer, if you don't want to answer then you can take leave %26amp; come back once your Friend is back to home.


As of now, i feel you should be cool enough, which will help you to present yourself, your level of confidence will increase %26amp; you will develop yourself perfectly.


Take Care.





Regards,


Pavan M.
Reply:It's OK. Just keep cool and everything is gonna be fine!
Reply:It never happens to me and I would enjoy answering them with


tit for tat answers.We must take it sportively.You have to face much more embrassing situations in your future but never behave so foolishly in exposing your weakness. You must feel ashamed for your sweating.
Reply:hi ..





sweating is common and every1 sweats yaar ...come on its nothin to b worried upon .. u vr ju sweating at this scene coz u vr nervous mayb or mayb embaressed .. i wud never tell u not to go to a frndz house .. cummon its stupidity .. if u nxt time go for a interview and sweat then wud u aftr that never go for an interview in ur life ????and waste ur life ??? i guess its a no! then there is nothin feeeling embaressed upon .. just take it as a joke and laugh upon it ..life is meant to b enjoyed ..if u start thinking so deeply abt all this then ....u will go nuts soon .!!





juzzz freak out now and dont worry .. u tell ur frnd wot ur positiong was - tell -'iam sry i was sweating too much that day .. actually coz i was vry nervous answering ur mom and others .. and it juz happened .. iam sry ... '


i am sure he will say -' its ok yaar .. i even forgot abt this .. '





understood madam .. dont think abt this any more ... juz keep smiling now !! haha