So is it him or is it me?

Met the perfect guy at a party on fri. I went and tlked to him, he asked to dance, we talked all night. He texted me sat night (around 10). I didn't have texting in my plan (just got it 2 days ago). I didn't want to text back, or call, idk, thought i'd wait and my friends thought it would be a good idea. I was up late till 4am hanging out w/ friends, woke up @ noon. called him sun and didnt get him. i added him on face book, he wrote me, i wrote back. i think i wrote something lame. he didn't call that night (but of course we talked that day). monday night i txted him to ask what he was up to, he txted back and asked the same. after i texted he didnt reply. tues and now wed-no call. will he call thurs to make plans? he knows im interested, i asked for his # and he took mine. he aked if i had a bf and txted me the next night so- he likes me.but will he give up or something and think its not worth it? idk am i overreactin? is he acting weird or am i? [btw im a freshman in college] i

So is it him or is it me?
Would it surprise you if I said , your both weird!
Reply:its you, but it is normal for a woman.





he cant move too fast, women wont date a man who shows interest. you will call him a stalker.





if he is smart, he wont make plans this week, because you will stuff him in the friend box and never let out. what he should do is ignore you for a week, then ask you out next week, you will be mad by then and now he wont be a friend, so you will date him.





you women wrote these rules, we guys just play by them.
Reply:It's probably not you or him. You're a freshman in college, so that means out of the house for all of three weeks max. It's a wide world out there, for both you and him. Be patient, because he may not be sure of what he wants, and his opportunities just took a big jump, so he may be a little disoriented and overwhelmed with the whole experience. If he truly is interested, he'll be back. Don't act desperate. You may find someone you like more by next week.
Reply:Hey, your not weird at all just a girl looking for a boyfriend. If he doesn't call you by Wednesday, he's not that into to you! Do Not Call or IM him. If guys really like a girl they will walk in a snow storm to get to the girl (you know what I mean). If he ends up calling you on Thursday, to make plans for the weekend I would tell him I was busy. To me it seems like he either has a girlfriend, or is out for a good time. If you don't mind having a good time with no strings then go out with him. If your looking for something serious he's not it... Sorry, there's more fish in the sea.

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