Just Another Pretty Face?

I like this boy, who is very smart and goes to a very good college. I think of myself as very smart. I do get a 4.0, but grades aren't everyhting.


For the past few months, after reading a book about a very sweet girl, I decided that I wanted to be like that sweet girl. So I refused to listen to negative insults, and I always chose to see the best in people and never second-guessed what anyone said. I even use a slightly high-pitched, girly little voice. I thought that it was all about being sweet.


But for this boy, it isn't. He thinks I am 'just a pretty face', with no real season of humor or depth. Since I am not sarcastic or see life in an ironic way, like the me-before-girly me might have, this boy doesn't find my sweet face and caring qualites likeable.


The thing is, he might really like me if I went back to being the real me, instead of the on-the-inside-fake and overly cheery me. But the thing is, the real me is miserable 25% of the time, and cheery-fake me ISN'T. Help?

Just Another Pretty Face?
heres an idea, be yourself and not a character in a book. now, on the plus side for you to create a character and become that character makes me think you have the most important aspect in being a great actress. have you thought about it. Screw that guy, think of bigger things. if your pretty, u could have a shot. Kim basingers friends say they cant even be around her when she is filming movies, cuz she lives as that character, like u did.
Reply:just be yourself. it's lot easier
Reply:I think being yourself is more INTERESTING and of course, easier. Being sweet/cheery/happy all the time can be annoying. I think someone who has a bad and good side to them are more interesting. Good luck
Reply:Stay sweet and nothing is wrong with being sarcastic in a nice way just to get a laugh in
Reply:Just be yourself! If someone liked you because of your "Sweet girly" persona then they really aren't attracted to the real you, just who you claim to be..There will be plenty of guys who will like you for you....