Its not serious, Its just girl trouble, im a male, heeellp!?

Ok i briefly worked with a women who i was attracted to( i never admit it anytime for any woman) and we got chatting on face book, we have both left our work and im getting a new job and shes at uni. Now i thought we were just going to be geeky internet friends talking about life and hobbits BUT shes been complimenting me and she jsut asked if i wanna go for a "celebrate being single" drink. OH GOD! everytime i show an interest in a girl i always @£%%26amp; it up! or she ends up getting a a runt of a rebound man and screwing her life up in a way, e.g one of my ex'es dropped out of college because when i didnt like her (i know its bad i should think before i put my chips down) but she met a friend throgh me and had sex with him and i recon she dropped out of college because i was the link, the idiot.





Or ill just be me and all weird and shell say in two weeks "yeah this aint w orking out" = Me crying and getting depressed. GODDDD you wouldnt think she ONLY invited me for a drink. please

Its not serious, Its just girl trouble, im a male, heeellp!?
1. dont assume she likes you anymore than just a friend


2. dont express your true feelings to her especially on first date


3. remember #1


4. dont bring up stuff about her bad luck with guys


5. remember #1


6. be relaxed, nervousness will make her nervous and kill all chances with her


7. remember #1


8. when you two do sit down for a drink and chat, talk about stuff other than work, school, family, church...all guys shat about that and it is boring! talk about stuff women take an interest in: men fashion, celebrities, animals, gossip.


9. remember #1


10. dress appropriately, shave, cologne, clipped nails, trimmed nose hairs, polished shoes, etc...women will measure your qualities partially on how you take care of your appearance.
Reply:Theres no point not being yourself, she won't appreciate it.
Reply:get a grip!!


look for a girl and sort urself out and if you think it just isn't working for you,well there's only one other option......


you'll never know! until you've tried it.
Reply:Just go for it or you will be single forever. You can talk about 'hobbits' face to face over a nice drink and a meal ; - )





You are not to blame for what a woman does after meeting you or splitting with you.
Reply:Ok well I am a woman so maybe this will help. If I asked a guy out for a drink then that means I am interested in him and want to get to know him a little bit better. She probably asked you out as the first move hoping you'll make the second. Be yourself hun! You don't want to base a relationship on complete fakeness. That defeats the whole purpose of being happy. Just go for it!
Reply:What is the big deal? Just go get the drink.


Don't be a pansy.