Has this ever happened to you?!?

I am in college and I decided to take a summer course and live on campus for an extra semester to finish a bit earlier. I met this girl V.I.A. face book that go to my college and who is also apparently involved in this summer semester thing here at college.





So we signed up to room together and we ended up getting tripled. She seemed very nice and at first it seemed like the two of us clicked well until our third roommate came in. Then the two of them really "clicked" and I just felt a bit out of place. I mean she's a VERY nice person don't get me wrong but we just don't "click"





has anybody else ever had a situation like this?


and what did you do?


is this normal for us not to like "click" but the other two girls do?


could that mean there is like something wrong with me?

Has this ever happened to you?!?
First of all, there's nothing wrong with you. She and the other girl are just more compatible (personality-wise) for a close friendship. I'm sure she still likes you as a friend too but not as much as the other girl. Its nothing personal just a preference. Try to get along with both of them for harmony sake and find your own best friend.





Its all good.
Reply:Nothing's wrong she just has more things in common with the other roomate. There is nothing wrong with you, she just hasn't had time to get to know you. You have the whole entire summer to become friends. When in college I was the "middle friend". It was three of us, I was the friend that the other two would talk about one another to. Maybe you guys will be friends and maybe not, doesn't mean it's any reflection on the type of person you are. Find another friend.
Reply:That's absolutely normal. Everyone has her/his own peculiarities and preferences it just so happened that the other two jived and you did not. Anyway, we are social beings..you just have to adjust a little to them so you don't clash and tell them honestly how you feel about things. The trick there is keeping the communication lines open.
Reply:no but try to get to know them and hang out with them. If they clicking and u feel so sore then u are going to be left behind so join them. Laugh with them.
Reply:This has happened to me before. This is totally normal, especially between girls, because we are very relationship-oriented. But that doesn't mean we are all going to be the best of friends. Lots of my friends have other "best friends" that they seem to "click" with much better than me, but we are still friends.


Don't worry, there is nothing wrong with you.
Reply:sorry that has never happend to me
Reply:Oh man... Actually this has happened to me to many times... really it happens to me all the time. It seems that i am just not intresting enough to get a long with people. Maybe because i am a bit old fashion about things... I am not completely for drinking and i am allergic to cigeratte smoke. Soo i can't go a lot of places. It sucks... I know how you feel. I actually blame myself for not being a bit more "Crazy" soo maybe i could get a long with some people. But i ain't that way.. My mother raised me a bit more differently and i am now a married woman with a child. Its a bit more difficult for me to make friends.. It just seems that other people click better because they have a lot of things in common. I see it normal for most girls i don't get a long with, I hang out with guys instead. Mostly cus it seems i can't make any Chick friends... I ain't girly enough or always something.. Soo i just go on with my life and find someone who is into things as much as me or as smart as me. I ain't changing for no one. And i make my own friends, and group.
Reply:Some time when u look at certain person or object.


U either like it or don't. It is life.


Human relationships, just like chemistry where it take to blend


together or some like hot and some like cool. End result, compatible or not!


Is just normal and nothing wrong with U. Just accept her as a good friend and move on.
Reply:No this is normal-You choose who you like and who likes you back. If you feel something in the first girl who you like as a friend then she will be there to befriend you-but this other girl you should try to click with, if not no big deal-don't be rude though to the other girl and no there is nothing wrong with you :)