Foreign first love manipulated me, I dumped him, and now I have to work with him, help please!=(?

Please help me as I am very confused. I transfered into my school in January 07 and one of my RA took an interest in me. He was from Kenya and was very cute and popular. I had never actually dated a guy since I was always moving as a teenager. Essentially he made me feel like he was a great catch and was a good person. Two months into the relationship I began to realize that something was not right with him. He barely called me for example when I went to visit my parents in Italy and when I went on his Face book he was talking to some girl at another college. When I got back to the states I found out he was talking to another girl, and almost kissed her. He cried and pleaded with me to stay with him and told me a sob story about how he was insecure about himself and thats why he did it. I knew he wore a wig and stuffed his shoes to appear taller so I forgave him out of pity. Two months later he does the same thing again. He gives me same excuse and like a moron i forgive him.

Foreign first love manipulated me, I dumped him, and now I have to work with him, help please!=(?
Lose him! You have given him 1 chance %26amp; that is MORE than enough.
Reply:1) He's not good enough for you. Dump him and forget about him.


2) Report him for taking advantage of his position. I'm sure there are rules about that.
Reply:move on. he'll do it again. u deserve better then a guy u cant trust. he does it once... ok maybe but twice.... yea something is wrong. dont wait for a third.
Reply:If he gives you any trouble, report him. He can not harass you at work and get by with it. It is always best to avoid dating people you work with. Too much drama!!