Since, as long as I can remember, I've been a huge dreamer
and a huge planner but lately, I have begun to think if it is actually normal to do this?
I am a very analytical person, meaning I analyze everything. I mean EVERYTHING. From the way people move, to expressions peoples face, to times and dates that it happens, I analyze EVERY aspect of things to make sure it all works out.
Well I've been fascinated with England for some time now,
and I find myself literally "obsessing" about it.
I havn't started college yet, but I'm analyzing
the time period it would take to graduate from the college
I want to go to (Which i havn't even been accepted to).
I read everything on the net about moving from US to Uk,
I have read books and studied how homes work there.
Now this is the part that scares me, I began to look up
at monster.com Game Programmer Salaries. I converted that to pounds and began making accounts of homes and accessories I would like to have. Is this normal to be so excited?
Is it normal to obsess over such a dream?
Goodness, it's nothing to worry about. It's a very good thing to be analytical- I am too- and though sometimes it may get on peoples nerves, you'll be th one prepared while others fall on their face.It's expensive to live in England, and money is waaayyyyy different than it is in the US. It's good to be prepared for everything. Maybe even try taking a few french lessons. I try to learn almost everything about places that I go, so I pretty much know it as if I'd been there a million times before.It's good to be like you, and you'll go far if you keep it up.
Reply:ENGLAND IS DIFFERENT NOW THAN HOW IT USED TO BE SOME YEARS AGO..I HOPE OUR READING UP TO DATE STUFF...THERES FAR TOO MANT IMMIGRANTS IN UK..ITS NOT GREAT ANY MORE..ALSO ALOT OF PPL GET DRUNK IN THE TOWNS AS THERE ARE MANY MANY PUBS AND START FIGHTING..UNLESS YOUVE GOT FAMILY OVER THERE..ID SAVE YOURE PLANS UNTILL YOUR QUITE A LOT OLDER AND WISER
Reply:Nope. Abnormal.
I am completely normal
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I am completely normal
I am completely normal
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Reply:well i dont know where yor moving from but from the u.s. it's a long way from home the law's are different and you probably dont know anyone to travel with a compainion is one thing but to up and leave your country alone you had better be really cautious...
Reply:Fine go on--'git!
Reply:It's very expensive to live in England, and you must remember you can't work there, you aren't a citizen. So you would need enough money from loans to support yourself.
i wanted to do something like that too when I was your age.... i got over it... now i live in japan, but i didn't pay for it, and i don't have to work.... i can't anyway. I can only work for the US embassy, which i don't want to so.
Reply:You are young, do it now while you still can. If you don't at least try to go to school over there, you'll wind up going to college here in the US, then getting a job and you'll never have time to live in England! Do it now while you still can!
And yes, I think it's perfectly fine to have a dream like your's. Life would suck without dreams!
Good luck!
Reply:Lol, nothing wrong with someone who's prepared.
Monday, April 12, 2010
PLEASE PLEASE HELP ME!!! WHO can help me??? PLEASSE PLEASE HELP. IT'S IMPOSSIBLE!!!?
well this is the situatio:
i LIVE IN ENGLAND
i had a VERY bad time at primary school ad was bullied.
i then wet to high school and missed about 6 months out of each year . he teachers must have noticed and yet they assumed 9i am asumig) that they must have assumed i was catchig up i my spare time...ad i wasn't . thy did't eve bother puttig me i all the lower groups. all my parets seemded bothered about was them selves gettig in trouble. so at the ed of this year they set me to a private all-girls school ad the teachers did't even know that i was 2 years behind. i quit at the end of year as i could't cope. i thehn had 3 measly hours of home education on the LEA and i was forced to do work that was too hard ad learn myself out of books ad they didn't eve check that i was 3 years behid. also one of the coditios of that tuitio wa sthat ou had to be seeking cousellig. i HAD BEENSEVERELY DEPRESSED FOR YEARS SINCE I STARTED HIGH SCHOOL AS MY GRADMA WHO LOOOKED AFTER ME DIED AND I WAS QUITTING SCHOOL AD STAYIG AT HOME WATCHING VIDEOSMY GRADMA GOT ME..AD BOOKS AD RIDIG ONCE A WEEK AS I ASSOCIATED IT WITH HER AD I WAS SEVERELY DEPRESSED AD I DO MEAN SEVERELY.
AD i had a private art tutor who thought i was ok ad up todate with the work and doung a levels next ad i din't even kow what an a level was an i cheatedi 2 of the exams ad so later rippped my gcse certificate up as i kew i was no grades ad then i am NOW 19 YEARS OLD AD HAVE BEEN SENDING OFF FOR COLLEGE PROSPECTUSES FOR 3 YEARS AND I DO'T KNOW WHAT TO DO COS I COULD'T EVE GET A JOB WORKING IN A SHOP COS I DOT' EVEN KOW WHAT A CV IS NOR HOW TO APLY FOR A JOB OR WHAT I'D DO WITH THE MONEY OR AYTHING...AND I AM TERRIFIED I'M GOIG MAD BECAUSE
I HAVE BEEN NOT GROWIG UP..I HAVE BEEN STUCK AT AGE 11 INSIDE MY HAED..WATCHIG OLD CGILDREN'S FILMS/VIDEOS FOR YEARS AD YEARS AND NOT MOVING FORWARDS MENATLLY AND I WAS NOT THIKING ABOUT THE FUTURE AS I WAS IN SO MUCH PAIN AN I WAS GOIG OVER AD OVER AND OVER AND OVER THE PAST ALL OF THE TIME AND I WAS STAYING AT AGE 11 MENTALLY . ALSO MY MUM BULLIES ME AND I HAV EBEEN SCARED OF HER BUT THAT'S OT MY PROBLEM...MY PROBLEM IS I'M 19 AD I THIK I'M GOIG MAD AND I AM STILL STUCK AT AGE 11 AD I ALWAYS ITEDED TO GOBACK TOS SCJOOL BUT I EVER DID AD NOOE
WAS THERE FOR ME..NO FRIEDS OR REALATVES ..OOE...AD MY OAREETS NEVER GOT ME HELP FOR MY SCHOOL PHOBIA NOR ATI-DEPRESSANTS..IN FACT MY MOTHER ACTUALLY ENCOUTRAGED ME OT TO GO ON THEM. I'M 19 NOW(I HAVE BEEN IN A RIGHT STATE FOR YMOTHS) AND I DO'T KNOW ANY ORMAL STUFF FOR PEOPLE MY AGE LIKE WHY PEOPLE DRIK ALCOHOL,HOE TO US E A BUS, I HAVE BEEN VERY UWELL WITH DEPRESSIO FOR YEARS AD I HAVE O EDUCATION AD I HAVE'T MET AYOE AD WAS I THE HOUSE AD IT WAS LIKE TIME STPPED STILL.
WHO CA HELP ME? EVE WORSE WHE I WAS HAVING HOME EDUCATION ONE OF THE RULES WAS THAT YOU HAD TO BE SEEKIG HELP . I WAS SENT TO A COUNSELLORAD I WAS SO IL BACK THE ICOULDN'T BARE TO FACE IT ALL SO PRETEDED I WAS OK AD SHE SAW OTHING WROG AND SHE GOT A COMPLETELY FALSE IDEA OF ALL MY PROBLEMS AD ALL THE OTES ON ME ARE OW COMPLETELY WRONG/SO WRONG. I AM 19 NOW AD SO SCARED...I CAN SEE NO WAY OUT. WHO CA HELP ME? I DO'T SEE WHO CAN ? PEOPLE DON'T BELIVE ME AS WELL...BUT IT'S ALL TRUE I SWEAR ON MY LIFE. I do't kow where i am in time ad my parets lie to people saying i'm ok whe i'm ot just so they do't get i trouble. ad i'm so scared i'm goig mad cos i am still stuck back at age 11. i foud a course for people with no GCSEs but have a problem in that ok so the peopl o it have no GCSEs but they have still bee MOVING FORWARDS MENTALLY AD BEE WELL AD WITH IT FOR YEARS AND YEARS. i have no life experiece...i can't relate to them or how they got there. i am still 11 i my head stuck in a 19 year olds body. i mea ok so they got o GCSE but they'll still have piced stuff up fro other about them...they'll have moved in to the future ad be able to see further ahead tha i can ad will know stuff like how to lok after themselves, why people take drugs, what alsohol is, why people live i the houses they do, how the world works etc..etc..i have bee ill for years ad years ad yeaes. plus I'm actually 19 ad people have rubbed it in and in that i'm 19 ad thry'll be 16 ad it doea't match up with birth dates ad tring to match the past up with there's and stuff. imagone this..i walk ito the room and what do i say to people ..hat do i say/ i can't match up with them? i ahven't moved into the futuure and i don't kow who i am anymore. like i could't eve learn to drive cos i do't really understad whhere people go..i'd have owhere to go . i see it from back 7 years ago...and it feels so wrong. ALSO THERE'S NOONE HERE TO TALK TO OR BE THERE FOR ME...I SAID TO MUMI FELT LIKE I WAS GOIG MAD AD SHE DID'T CARE AD LEFT ME TO SUFFER ALONE AND I'M SCARED. I AM 19 STUCK BACK 7 YEARS AGO AD I AM COMPLETELY ALOE. WHO CAN HELP ME? WHAT CA ANYDOCTOR POSSIBLY DO? THEY CAN'T PUT THE PAST 7 YEARS BACK ITO MY HEADOW CAN THEY? I HAVEN'T MOVED FORWARDS NORMALLY. i CA'T SEE AY WAY OUT. i WILL BE STUCK HERE FOREVERE AD GO EVE MADDER AD THEN WHEN MY PARENTS IE I'LL STARVE TO DEATH. PLEAZSE TAKE ME SERIOUSLE PLEASE. I AM BEING SERIOUS HERE. I COULD'T EVE GET THE MOST BASIC OF JOBS AD I CA'T MATCH UP WITH WHERE I AM SUPPOSED TO BE I TIME . I MEAN WHAT HAVE ALL THE OTHERS BEENTHROUGH? I DO'T KNOW...I WAS LIVIG I THE PAST..STAYIG STILL LIKE I HAVE BEN BOR ATA AGE 19 OR LIKE I WET TO SLEEP AT AGE 11 ANDHAVE WOKEN UP AT AGE 19. I'M SCARED . REALLY SCARED. DOCTORS DEAL WITH PEOPLE WITH MENATL ILLESS...LIKE SEEING VISIONS.HEARIN STFF ETC....I DON'T HAVE THAT OR ANYTHIG. I AM ON ANTI-DEPRESSATS SO OT EVE DEPRESSED AYMORE...THEY'VE MADE ME WAKE UP AND MY PRBLEM IS THAT I HAVE O PAST..I DN'T
KOW WHERE I AM IN TIME AND IT'S LIKE I'VE GONE INTO THE FUTURE AD YOU MUST BELIVE ME IT'S TRUE..I MEAN I HAVEN'T BEEN MOVING FORWARD. WHAT CA AY DOCTOR POSSIBLY DO? THEY CANOT RECREATE MY PAST. WHO CA HELP ME? I CA SEE O WAY OUT? i'll ever get a job, get married a dhave children ad i can't live like this. i eed help but i don't see who ca...some eve thik i'm lyig as it souds so well abormal. what ca i do? i am so aloe ad i ca't cope ad i DO'T WANT TO DIE ad be like this. i don't kow what to do. i don't know anything...like what abank account is...why people drive or aythig...i should have goe to school but i did't . eho ca help me. i hate being 19 cos all people say is your a adult ahd i'm ot i'm a child stuck atage 11 i an adults body and i have no future. wHO CANHELP ME???i don't know wher ei am i time..like i don't even kow (sorry to say this i kno it aint very nice but well i do't kow stuff like why people livehouses,wy people drink alocohol, what sex is, what drugs are, what the laws are ad how they apply to us ad people s age ad stuff ad what others i duifreret coutirs live thier lives. i do't really understad the gvernment at all..ad i do't know stuff..just life stuff. i'm ot worried about the fact i have no GCSEs it's not that i'm
worried about it's the fcat i haven't been with people at all ad have't growj up and i'm surprisec i've bee able to preseve my brain at age 11 ...i mean why didn't i otice before...how did i manege this? i don't know how but i did ad ow i'm i a real bad way. what can i do? i'm 19 have ever had a job ad am stuck back 7 years ago still waiting to go back to school.
PLEASE PLEASE HELP ME!!! WHO can help me??? PLEASSE PLEASE HELP. IT'S IMPOSSIBLE!!!?
OK first I stop reading before the end of the third sentence...
Second no one's childhood is perfect we were all picked on, get over it and grow up...
For god sake will you learn what the hell a spell checker is???
Reply:Find a good church and get some Christian counselling. You've been told that because you're not the smartest you're not worth as much. That's not true. Go to church. Get Christian counsel, Read your Bible and learn who you are in Gods eyes and hang on to that. Good luck, and God Bless!
Reply:Whoa whoa whoa!! Back up for just a minute. Look at wht you are telling yourself. You're sending out bad energy to the universe, and bad energy attracts more bad energy. For just a moment, just once, say to yourself "I am 19 years old. I'm young-at-heart- and I'm proud."
Next, I suggest you get a tutor. Sylvan Education has some really good tutors! I don't tknow if they are in England or not, they are very good, but you're going to have to open yourself, and stop saying that you are "only 11", becaue you're not. You're tricking yourself into thinking that you are. No offence or anything, i don't know you personally, you are taking a strangers advice, therefor, you're going to get a stranger's answer.
You shouldn't have skipped out on school so much during your pre-teen and teen years, that's the most important part of your life. Don't tell yourself "It was all my fault" DONT. I was NOT all your fault! Didn't your parents make you go to school?? It's not a child's job to go to school everyday, it's the Parent's job to MAKE SURE that their child gets an education!
You are already a smart girl for knowing that you have a minor problem with your knowlege, but stop telling yourself how terrible you are, becuz you're not terrible!
Here are a few things you should do:
Get a Tutor, and be VERY open to his/her views
Continue counseling it will help a lot.
I'm sorry you are facing these troubles, and I hope that I helped, but not knowing you in person, I'm not sure what to say. I hope this helped.
Reply:Whew! Seems you have a lot of problems. But as far as your education why not try a home course? I took a home course and it really helped me. With a home course you study at your own rate and so you can take your time. Find one that's not expensive and get started. Since I've never been to England go to a local school and ask a teacher how you can get a high school diploma. Here in the US there's a test that can be taked tp earn a diploma.
Reply:wow, you have had a really hard life, maybe you should ask God to help you with your personal problems. or convert to Christainaty.
Reply:Sweetheart. Please please go to a therapist. You need to tell him/her every thing you have written here.
You get experience in all the things you are questioning by going out into the world and learning it.
I think you are having a problem with your self esteem and a therapist can help you with this too.
Good luck.
Reply:Sorry..
Reply:You need a therapist. No one in here is going to be able to help you.
Reply:The only person who can really help you is you. You have been given private tutoring and education and it hasn't helped. That is because you do not want it to help. You need to get yourself a job, and I mean any job. Working at MacDonald's or the local fruit shop or whatever. If not a job then you need to volunteer your time to whatever - helping at a retirement village. Anything at all as long as you are putting yourself out into the community. Once you feel good about whatever you are doing then you can move onto other things such as getting a better education. Sitting at home watching movies will only make you more depressed. The sooner you stop blaming your parents or the government or even the schools the sooner you will be able to move forward and do something for yourself. It is time for you to grow up and get on with your life
Reply:Dude chill, you're question is way too long. You would be surprised at how many people are 7 years behind. I was behind. You just sign up for classes at a community college they test you, and set you up for remedial classes. If you're in school a couple extra years catching up it's cool. Alot of people don't start going to college until they are in their thirties. Damn. You're stressing me out you were stressing so bad.
Reply:I read the first part of your story...
I couldnt go on...
BUT... why don't you just go to the library and rent a GED preperation book... the librarian can help you find the best one...
then once ur done studyn'...
go and take the test...
then vuwallah you've got urself a high-school equivilent.
But it's not that easy.. just sit ur butt down and study the ONE book.
IT is not that hard and there are online tutors...
p.s. start somewhere... get a job... anywhere.... even McDonald's if it has to be the case!!!
Reply:Oh my God, I feel so bad for you that I want to just cry! I don;t think I can personally help, but I really think you need to go talk OPENLY with a therapist. If you are too afraid to say aloud what you just openly told thousands of people, then maybe you could print what you just wrote and take it to the therapist? Sweetie, you have been protected TOO long by your family, and what you need is for them to pay attention and wake up. If it is because they are embarassed by your situation, then THEY need to go to counseling with you! If you want someone to just talk to, feel free to send me a message ANY time. i am not a therapist, but it sounds like you could use a friend. And I swear, if I hear any mean remarks to this girl, I will hunt you down and you will pay.. She really needs help.
i LIVE IN ENGLAND
i had a VERY bad time at primary school ad was bullied.
i then wet to high school and missed about 6 months out of each year . he teachers must have noticed and yet they assumed 9i am asumig) that they must have assumed i was catchig up i my spare time...ad i wasn't . thy did't eve bother puttig me i all the lower groups. all my parets seemded bothered about was them selves gettig in trouble. so at the ed of this year they set me to a private all-girls school ad the teachers did't even know that i was 2 years behind. i quit at the end of year as i could't cope. i thehn had 3 measly hours of home education on the LEA and i was forced to do work that was too hard ad learn myself out of books ad they didn't eve check that i was 3 years behid. also one of the coditios of that tuitio wa sthat ou had to be seeking cousellig. i HAD BEENSEVERELY DEPRESSED FOR YEARS SINCE I STARTED HIGH SCHOOL AS MY GRADMA WHO LOOOKED AFTER ME DIED AND I WAS QUITTING SCHOOL AD STAYIG AT HOME WATCHING VIDEOSMY GRADMA GOT ME..AD BOOKS AD RIDIG ONCE A WEEK AS I ASSOCIATED IT WITH HER AD I WAS SEVERELY DEPRESSED AD I DO MEAN SEVERELY.
AD i had a private art tutor who thought i was ok ad up todate with the work and doung a levels next ad i din't even kow what an a level was an i cheatedi 2 of the exams ad so later rippped my gcse certificate up as i kew i was no grades ad then i am NOW 19 YEARS OLD AD HAVE BEEN SENDING OFF FOR COLLEGE PROSPECTUSES FOR 3 YEARS AND I DO'T KNOW WHAT TO DO COS I COULD'T EVE GET A JOB WORKING IN A SHOP COS I DOT' EVEN KOW WHAT A CV IS NOR HOW TO APLY FOR A JOB OR WHAT I'D DO WITH THE MONEY OR AYTHING...AND I AM TERRIFIED I'M GOIG MAD BECAUSE
I HAVE BEEN NOT GROWIG UP..I HAVE BEEN STUCK AT AGE 11 INSIDE MY HAED..WATCHIG OLD CGILDREN'S FILMS/VIDEOS FOR YEARS AD YEARS AND NOT MOVING FORWARDS MENATLLY AND I WAS NOT THIKING ABOUT THE FUTURE AS I WAS IN SO MUCH PAIN AN I WAS GOIG OVER AD OVER AND OVER AND OVER THE PAST ALL OF THE TIME AND I WAS STAYING AT AGE 11 MENTALLY . ALSO MY MUM BULLIES ME AND I HAV EBEEN SCARED OF HER BUT THAT'S OT MY PROBLEM...MY PROBLEM IS I'M 19 AD I THIK I'M GOIG MAD AND I AM STILL STUCK AT AGE 11 AD I ALWAYS ITEDED TO GOBACK TOS SCJOOL BUT I EVER DID AD NOOE
WAS THERE FOR ME..NO FRIEDS OR REALATVES ..OOE...AD MY OAREETS NEVER GOT ME HELP FOR MY SCHOOL PHOBIA NOR ATI-DEPRESSANTS..IN FACT MY MOTHER ACTUALLY ENCOUTRAGED ME OT TO GO ON THEM. I'M 19 NOW(I HAVE BEEN IN A RIGHT STATE FOR YMOTHS) AND I DO'T KNOW ANY ORMAL STUFF FOR PEOPLE MY AGE LIKE WHY PEOPLE DRIK ALCOHOL,HOE TO US E A BUS, I HAVE BEEN VERY UWELL WITH DEPRESSIO FOR YEARS AD I HAVE O EDUCATION AD I HAVE'T MET AYOE AD WAS I THE HOUSE AD IT WAS LIKE TIME STPPED STILL.
WHO CA HELP ME? EVE WORSE WHE I WAS HAVING HOME EDUCATION ONE OF THE RULES WAS THAT YOU HAD TO BE SEEKIG HELP . I WAS SENT TO A COUNSELLORAD I WAS SO IL BACK THE ICOULDN'T BARE TO FACE IT ALL SO PRETEDED I WAS OK AD SHE SAW OTHING WROG AND SHE GOT A COMPLETELY FALSE IDEA OF ALL MY PROBLEMS AD ALL THE OTES ON ME ARE OW COMPLETELY WRONG/SO WRONG. I AM 19 NOW AD SO SCARED...I CAN SEE NO WAY OUT. WHO CA HELP ME? I DO'T SEE WHO CAN ? PEOPLE DON'T BELIVE ME AS WELL...BUT IT'S ALL TRUE I SWEAR ON MY LIFE. I do't kow where i am in time ad my parets lie to people saying i'm ok whe i'm ot just so they do't get i trouble. ad i'm so scared i'm goig mad cos i am still stuck back at age 11. i foud a course for people with no GCSEs but have a problem in that ok so the peopl o it have no GCSEs but they have still bee MOVING FORWARDS MENTALLY AD BEE WELL AD WITH IT FOR YEARS AND YEARS. i have no life experiece...i can't relate to them or how they got there. i am still 11 i my head stuck in a 19 year olds body. i mea ok so they got o GCSE but they'll still have piced stuff up fro other about them...they'll have moved in to the future ad be able to see further ahead tha i can ad will know stuff like how to lok after themselves, why people take drugs, what alsohol is, why people live i the houses they do, how the world works etc..etc..i have bee ill for years ad years ad yeaes. plus I'm actually 19 ad people have rubbed it in and in that i'm 19 ad thry'll be 16 ad it doea't match up with birth dates ad tring to match the past up with there's and stuff. imagone this..i walk ito the room and what do i say to people ..hat do i say/ i can't match up with them? i ahven't moved into the futuure and i don't kow who i am anymore. like i could't eve learn to drive cos i do't really understad whhere people go..i'd have owhere to go . i see it from back 7 years ago...and it feels so wrong. ALSO THERE'S NOONE HERE TO TALK TO OR BE THERE FOR ME...I SAID TO MUMI FELT LIKE I WAS GOIG MAD AD SHE DID'T CARE AD LEFT ME TO SUFFER ALONE AND I'M SCARED. I AM 19 STUCK BACK 7 YEARS AGO AD I AM COMPLETELY ALOE. WHO CAN HELP ME? WHAT CA ANYDOCTOR POSSIBLY DO? THEY CAN'T PUT THE PAST 7 YEARS BACK ITO MY HEADOW CAN THEY? I HAVEN'T MOVED FORWARDS NORMALLY. i CA'T SEE AY WAY OUT. i WILL BE STUCK HERE FOREVERE AD GO EVE MADDER AD THEN WHEN MY PARENTS IE I'LL STARVE TO DEATH. PLEAZSE TAKE ME SERIOUSLE PLEASE. I AM BEING SERIOUS HERE. I COULD'T EVE GET THE MOST BASIC OF JOBS AD I CA'T MATCH UP WITH WHERE I AM SUPPOSED TO BE I TIME . I MEAN WHAT HAVE ALL THE OTHERS BEENTHROUGH? I DO'T KNOW...I WAS LIVIG I THE PAST..STAYIG STILL LIKE I HAVE BEN BOR ATA AGE 19 OR LIKE I WET TO SLEEP AT AGE 11 ANDHAVE WOKEN UP AT AGE 19. I'M SCARED . REALLY SCARED. DOCTORS DEAL WITH PEOPLE WITH MENATL ILLESS...LIKE SEEING VISIONS.HEARIN STFF ETC....I DON'T HAVE THAT OR ANYTHIG. I AM ON ANTI-DEPRESSATS SO OT EVE DEPRESSED AYMORE...THEY'VE MADE ME WAKE UP AND MY PRBLEM IS THAT I HAVE O PAST..I DN'T
KOW WHERE I AM IN TIME AND IT'S LIKE I'VE GONE INTO THE FUTURE AD YOU MUST BELIVE ME IT'S TRUE..I MEAN I HAVEN'T BEEN MOVING FORWARD. WHAT CA AY DOCTOR POSSIBLY DO? THEY CANOT RECREATE MY PAST. WHO CA HELP ME? I CA SEE O WAY OUT? i'll ever get a job, get married a dhave children ad i can't live like this. i eed help but i don't see who ca...some eve thik i'm lyig as it souds so well abormal. what ca i do? i am so aloe ad i ca't cope ad i DO'T WANT TO DIE ad be like this. i don't kow what to do. i don't know anything...like what abank account is...why people drive or aythig...i should have goe to school but i did't . eho ca help me. i hate being 19 cos all people say is your a adult ahd i'm ot i'm a child stuck atage 11 i an adults body and i have no future. wHO CANHELP ME???i don't know wher ei am i time..like i don't even kow (sorry to say this i kno it aint very nice but well i do't kow stuff like why people livehouses,wy people drink alocohol, what sex is, what drugs are, what the laws are ad how they apply to us ad people s age ad stuff ad what others i duifreret coutirs live thier lives. i do't really understad the gvernment at all..ad i do't know stuff..just life stuff. i'm ot worried about the fact i have no GCSEs it's not that i'm
worried about it's the fcat i haven't been with people at all ad have't growj up and i'm surprisec i've bee able to preseve my brain at age 11 ...i mean why didn't i otice before...how did i manege this? i don't know how but i did ad ow i'm i a real bad way. what can i do? i'm 19 have ever had a job ad am stuck back 7 years ago still waiting to go back to school.
PLEASE PLEASE HELP ME!!! WHO can help me??? PLEASSE PLEASE HELP. IT'S IMPOSSIBLE!!!?
OK first I stop reading before the end of the third sentence...
Second no one's childhood is perfect we were all picked on, get over it and grow up...
For god sake will you learn what the hell a spell checker is???
Reply:Find a good church and get some Christian counselling. You've been told that because you're not the smartest you're not worth as much. That's not true. Go to church. Get Christian counsel, Read your Bible and learn who you are in Gods eyes and hang on to that. Good luck, and God Bless!
Reply:Whoa whoa whoa!! Back up for just a minute. Look at wht you are telling yourself. You're sending out bad energy to the universe, and bad energy attracts more bad energy. For just a moment, just once, say to yourself "I am 19 years old. I'm young-at-heart- and I'm proud."
Next, I suggest you get a tutor. Sylvan Education has some really good tutors! I don't tknow if they are in England or not, they are very good, but you're going to have to open yourself, and stop saying that you are "only 11", becaue you're not. You're tricking yourself into thinking that you are. No offence or anything, i don't know you personally, you are taking a strangers advice, therefor, you're going to get a stranger's answer.
You shouldn't have skipped out on school so much during your pre-teen and teen years, that's the most important part of your life. Don't tell yourself "It was all my fault" DONT. I was NOT all your fault! Didn't your parents make you go to school?? It's not a child's job to go to school everyday, it's the Parent's job to MAKE SURE that their child gets an education!
You are already a smart girl for knowing that you have a minor problem with your knowlege, but stop telling yourself how terrible you are, becuz you're not terrible!
Here are a few things you should do:
Get a Tutor, and be VERY open to his/her views
Continue counseling it will help a lot.
I'm sorry you are facing these troubles, and I hope that I helped, but not knowing you in person, I'm not sure what to say. I hope this helped.
Reply:Whew! Seems you have a lot of problems. But as far as your education why not try a home course? I took a home course and it really helped me. With a home course you study at your own rate and so you can take your time. Find one that's not expensive and get started. Since I've never been to England go to a local school and ask a teacher how you can get a high school diploma. Here in the US there's a test that can be taked tp earn a diploma.
Reply:wow, you have had a really hard life, maybe you should ask God to help you with your personal problems. or convert to Christainaty.
Reply:Sweetheart. Please please go to a therapist. You need to tell him/her every thing you have written here.
You get experience in all the things you are questioning by going out into the world and learning it.
I think you are having a problem with your self esteem and a therapist can help you with this too.
Good luck.
Reply:Sorry..
Reply:You need a therapist. No one in here is going to be able to help you.
Reply:The only person who can really help you is you. You have been given private tutoring and education and it hasn't helped. That is because you do not want it to help. You need to get yourself a job, and I mean any job. Working at MacDonald's or the local fruit shop or whatever. If not a job then you need to volunteer your time to whatever - helping at a retirement village. Anything at all as long as you are putting yourself out into the community. Once you feel good about whatever you are doing then you can move onto other things such as getting a better education. Sitting at home watching movies will only make you more depressed. The sooner you stop blaming your parents or the government or even the schools the sooner you will be able to move forward and do something for yourself. It is time for you to grow up and get on with your life
Reply:Dude chill, you're question is way too long. You would be surprised at how many people are 7 years behind. I was behind. You just sign up for classes at a community college they test you, and set you up for remedial classes. If you're in school a couple extra years catching up it's cool. Alot of people don't start going to college until they are in their thirties. Damn. You're stressing me out you were stressing so bad.
Reply:I read the first part of your story...
I couldnt go on...
BUT... why don't you just go to the library and rent a GED preperation book... the librarian can help you find the best one...
then once ur done studyn'...
go and take the test...
then vuwallah you've got urself a high-school equivilent.
But it's not that easy.. just sit ur butt down and study the ONE book.
IT is not that hard and there are online tutors...
p.s. start somewhere... get a job... anywhere.... even McDonald's if it has to be the case!!!
Reply:Oh my God, I feel so bad for you that I want to just cry! I don;t think I can personally help, but I really think you need to go talk OPENLY with a therapist. If you are too afraid to say aloud what you just openly told thousands of people, then maybe you could print what you just wrote and take it to the therapist? Sweetie, you have been protected TOO long by your family, and what you need is for them to pay attention and wake up. If it is because they are embarassed by your situation, then THEY need to go to counseling with you! If you want someone to just talk to, feel free to send me a message ANY time. i am not a therapist, but it sounds like you could use a friend. And I swear, if I hear any mean remarks to this girl, I will hunt you down and you will pay.. She really needs help.
Please help me CRYING very upset VERY CONFUSED!?
I'm very sorry this is so long I'm just VERY UPSET and need to let this out so please read!!!!
PLEASE I'M SO UPSET RIGHT NOW PLEASE!! i'm sorry i didn't mean for it to be this long i just need to let this all out!
PLEASE TAKE THE TIME TO READ THIS PLEASE!! I AM CRYING SO MUCH I CAN BARLEY TYPE!!!!
I have two best friends "Tori" and "Rachel." I'm a senior in high school. Tori and i got into a fight in the beginning of the year. She made fun of me because i thought Abraham Lincoln was black! (HE IS BLACK!!) I know i am right! I accident "swung at her" and hit her in the face. She had to get ice but it was on accident. I apologized to her about a million times. After that she went around to the whole school and told everyone how I had hit her and people have been making fun of me ever since! I am crying all the time because of that! Anyways recently within the past month she did apologize for her actions and has been sticking up for me quite a bit.
…this is where all of the problems start…Tori, Rachel, and I was all supposed to go to prom together with a group of other people! We had to buy tickets this week. Rachel Told me Tori and her boyfriend and everyone else to buy tickets on Wednesday. That was the last day to buy tickets. We all agreed to bring our money then. Tuesday while we were walking up to the field house for track practice Rachel was talking really badly about Tori calling her dumb and etc. Little did we realize that Tori was right behind us. So we get into the field house and Rachel dropped the bomb on me that neither me nor Tori nor her boyfriend were invited to prom anymore. She told us that she had already filled her table with 10 people, the limo was full and the hotel was booked already. She apologized for forgetting to tell us all of this. I was crying hysterically. I don’t have many friends and Rachel is my only one true friend. Now at that time I couldn’t go to prom because of it.
Tori then flipped out at Rachel and told her that she heard everything that she had said about her while we were walking to the field house. She then told me that Rachel was talking really really badly about me! She told me that Rachel said she did not want to go to the college she got into because she found out I would be attending there too. Tori then admitted that she had not always been the “best friend to me” but was recently sticking up for me. (WHICH SHE HAS BEEN) and that’s the truth. Any who Rachel denies ever saying that. She told me why she would ever say a thing like that if she was rooming with me at college. Which makes sense? Rachel then said she hadn’t always said “nice” things about me but she would never say anything like that.
I don’t know what to do now!! I’m so upset…now Tori said she’s not going to prom and going to go to her boyfriends prom at his school because she wants nothing to do with Rachel and is upset by what Rachel had done and wants to avoid drama. Tori invited me to go with her and her boyfriend to Virginia the day of our prom.
But…then Rachel said she had enough room for me in the limo and such on Wednesday the day I was buying the tickets so now I am going to prom! But I’m still upset by what happened. She wouldn’t Allow Tori to come but Tori said she doesn’t care anymore because all of this is childish drama that she refuses to get involved in.
Please help me CRYING very upset VERY CONFUSED!?
First off, Abraham Lincoln is WHITE....if you don't know that one basic fact, I hate to think how little you have learned in school. Maybe you should forget about college and go back to grade 8.
Secondly, you and ALL your friends need to grow up. You are acting like a bunch of idiots over nothing. Who cares who said what about ANYONE??? Worry about something worthwhile.
Third...didn't anyone teach you that Ladies do not fight? Act like you have some class.
Reply:I hate to inform you of this but........... I am a distant relative of Abe's. I did his family tree. He is white Hun.
Yes it is childish drama. I think you have done all you can do to fix this.
Reply:Okay so that was a long editorial. Anyways, Abraham Lincoln is white to start off with. Second of all if you are about to go to college you do not need to fight with those two girl because you're about to leave home unless it's like a community college but if you go to a University that is close to home but rather large then you probably won't even see those girls.
Okay the prom issue, if you wanted to go you should be confident to go by yourself because if you can't go to prom by yourself then you aren't going to be able to do many things by yourself (which is a part of growing up).
And then lastly, sometimes people say things just to make you pick a side between the two, Just sit them both down and tell them that you aren't going to decide between the two of them and if they can't accept that then they were never true friends.
Good luck.
Reply:WOW!! AND YOU GIVE A SH.IT ABOUT ALL THIS DRAMA?!!
GROW UP!!
Reply:PLEASE DO NOT listen to anyone who says that its just childish drama and get over it. I know that this must be devasting to you and I know you probably can't see or believe that this will all be over and everything will be back to normal or better. First, just try to take a breath and relax. Yes you should go to your prom, you'll regret not going b/c of this later on, Trust me!!! Second, take a little while and really try to look back, as fairly as you can, at both "Rachel" %26amp; "Tori". Has either one of them ever "Been there for you", I mean REALLY been there? Can you trust either or both of them? When something happens either good or bad who is the one person that you just have to tell? If you can answer either "Rachel" or "Tori" to these question then sit down with that person and work it out. If you can't then just realize that they are not "TRUE" friends. True friends think of you b./4 themselves, they don't talk behind your back and they are always there to count on!!!! If you're going to your prom then you'll be off to college soon, believe me things change in college.
I am NOT minimizing how you feel, please, look at the BIG picture. You might be surpirsed that one of you other friend, someone that you might not have been that close to might just be that true friend. I really hope this helped. GOOD LUCK!! And go to your prom, if for nothing else you feel better getting dressed up and looking GREAT!!!!
Reply:What's your point? I'm sure you can shorten all this up. No one wants to read all that stuff. Try again with a real question, please...and take the gum out, first.
Reply:well to me it sounds like tori is right, i agree with her but then i dont know rachel and what shes lie so i cant really judge.
PLEASE I'M SO UPSET RIGHT NOW PLEASE!! i'm sorry i didn't mean for it to be this long i just need to let this all out!
PLEASE TAKE THE TIME TO READ THIS PLEASE!! I AM CRYING SO MUCH I CAN BARLEY TYPE!!!!
I have two best friends "Tori" and "Rachel." I'm a senior in high school. Tori and i got into a fight in the beginning of the year. She made fun of me because i thought Abraham Lincoln was black! (HE IS BLACK!!) I know i am right! I accident "swung at her" and hit her in the face. She had to get ice but it was on accident. I apologized to her about a million times. After that she went around to the whole school and told everyone how I had hit her and people have been making fun of me ever since! I am crying all the time because of that! Anyways recently within the past month she did apologize for her actions and has been sticking up for me quite a bit.
…this is where all of the problems start…Tori, Rachel, and I was all supposed to go to prom together with a group of other people! We had to buy tickets this week. Rachel Told me Tori and her boyfriend and everyone else to buy tickets on Wednesday. That was the last day to buy tickets. We all agreed to bring our money then. Tuesday while we were walking up to the field house for track practice Rachel was talking really badly about Tori calling her dumb and etc. Little did we realize that Tori was right behind us. So we get into the field house and Rachel dropped the bomb on me that neither me nor Tori nor her boyfriend were invited to prom anymore. She told us that she had already filled her table with 10 people, the limo was full and the hotel was booked already. She apologized for forgetting to tell us all of this. I was crying hysterically. I don’t have many friends and Rachel is my only one true friend. Now at that time I couldn’t go to prom because of it.
Tori then flipped out at Rachel and told her that she heard everything that she had said about her while we were walking to the field house. She then told me that Rachel was talking really really badly about me! She told me that Rachel said she did not want to go to the college she got into because she found out I would be attending there too. Tori then admitted that she had not always been the “best friend to me” but was recently sticking up for me. (WHICH SHE HAS BEEN) and that’s the truth. Any who Rachel denies ever saying that. She told me why she would ever say a thing like that if she was rooming with me at college. Which makes sense? Rachel then said she hadn’t always said “nice” things about me but she would never say anything like that.
I don’t know what to do now!! I’m so upset…now Tori said she’s not going to prom and going to go to her boyfriends prom at his school because she wants nothing to do with Rachel and is upset by what Rachel had done and wants to avoid drama. Tori invited me to go with her and her boyfriend to Virginia the day of our prom.
But…then Rachel said she had enough room for me in the limo and such on Wednesday the day I was buying the tickets so now I am going to prom! But I’m still upset by what happened. She wouldn’t Allow Tori to come but Tori said she doesn’t care anymore because all of this is childish drama that she refuses to get involved in.
Please help me CRYING very upset VERY CONFUSED!?
First off, Abraham Lincoln is WHITE....if you don't know that one basic fact, I hate to think how little you have learned in school. Maybe you should forget about college and go back to grade 8.
Secondly, you and ALL your friends need to grow up. You are acting like a bunch of idiots over nothing. Who cares who said what about ANYONE??? Worry about something worthwhile.
Third...didn't anyone teach you that Ladies do not fight? Act like you have some class.
Reply:I hate to inform you of this but........... I am a distant relative of Abe's. I did his family tree. He is white Hun.
Yes it is childish drama. I think you have done all you can do to fix this.
Reply:Okay so that was a long editorial. Anyways, Abraham Lincoln is white to start off with. Second of all if you are about to go to college you do not need to fight with those two girl because you're about to leave home unless it's like a community college but if you go to a University that is close to home but rather large then you probably won't even see those girls.
Okay the prom issue, if you wanted to go you should be confident to go by yourself because if you can't go to prom by yourself then you aren't going to be able to do many things by yourself (which is a part of growing up).
And then lastly, sometimes people say things just to make you pick a side between the two, Just sit them both down and tell them that you aren't going to decide between the two of them and if they can't accept that then they were never true friends.
Good luck.
Reply:WOW!! AND YOU GIVE A SH.IT ABOUT ALL THIS DRAMA?!!
GROW UP!!
Reply:PLEASE DO NOT listen to anyone who says that its just childish drama and get over it. I know that this must be devasting to you and I know you probably can't see or believe that this will all be over and everything will be back to normal or better. First, just try to take a breath and relax. Yes you should go to your prom, you'll regret not going b/c of this later on, Trust me!!! Second, take a little while and really try to look back, as fairly as you can, at both "Rachel" %26amp; "Tori". Has either one of them ever "Been there for you", I mean REALLY been there? Can you trust either or both of them? When something happens either good or bad who is the one person that you just have to tell? If you can answer either "Rachel" or "Tori" to these question then sit down with that person and work it out. If you can't then just realize that they are not "TRUE" friends. True friends think of you b./4 themselves, they don't talk behind your back and they are always there to count on!!!! If you're going to your prom then you'll be off to college soon, believe me things change in college.
I am NOT minimizing how you feel, please, look at the BIG picture. You might be surpirsed that one of you other friend, someone that you might not have been that close to might just be that true friend. I really hope this helped. GOOD LUCK!! And go to your prom, if for nothing else you feel better getting dressed up and looking GREAT!!!!
Reply:What's your point? I'm sure you can shorten all this up. No one wants to read all that stuff. Try again with a real question, please...and take the gum out, first.
Reply:well to me it sounds like tori is right, i agree with her but then i dont know rachel and what shes lie so i cant really judge.
VERY VERY VERY VERY VERY UPSET!! please!!! read (crying)?
I'm very sorry this is so long I'm just VERY UPSET and need to let this out so please read!!!!
PLEASE I'M SO UPSET RIGHT NOW PLEASE!! i'm sorry i didn't mean for it to be this long i just need to let this all out!
PLEASE TAKE THE TIME TO READ THIS PLEASE!! I AM CRYING SO MUCH I CAN BARLEY TYPE!!!!
I have two best friends "Tori" and "Rachel." I'm a senior in high school. Tori and i got into a fight in the beginning of the year. She made fun of me because i thought Abraham Lincoln was black! (HE IS BLACK!!) I know i am right! I accident "swung at her" and hit her in the face. She had to get ice but it was on accident. I apologized to her about a million times. After that she went around to the whole school and told everyone how I had hit her and people have been making fun of me ever since! I am crying all the time because of that! Anyways recently within the past month she did apologize for her actions and has been sticking up for me quite a bit.
…this is where all of the problems start…Tori, Rachel, and I was all supposed to go to prom together with a group of other people! We had to buy tickets this week. Rachel Told me Tori and her boyfriend and everyone else to buy tickets on Wednesday. That was the last day to buy tickets. We all agreed to bring our money then. Tuesday while we were walking up to the field house for track practice Rachel was talking really badly about Tori calling her dumb and etc. Little did we realize that Tori was right behind us. So we get into the field house and Rachel dropped the bomb on me that neither me nor Tori nor her boyfriend were invited to prom anymore. She told us that she had already filled her table with 10 people, the limo was full and the hotel was booked already. She apologized for forgetting to tell us all of this. I was crying hysterically. I don’t have many friends and Rachel is my only one true friend. Now at that time I couldn’t go to prom because of it.
Tori then flipped out at Rachel and told her that she heard everything that she had said about her while we were walking to the field house. She then told me that Rachel was talking really really badly about me! She told me that Rachel said she did not want to go to the college she got into because she found out I would be attending there too. Tori then admitted that she had not always been the “best friend to me” but was recently sticking up for me. (WHICH SHE HAS BEEN) and that’s the truth. Any who Rachel denies ever saying that. She told me why she would ever say a thing like that if she was rooming with me at college. Which makes sense? Rachel then said she hadn’t always said “nice” things about me but she would never say anything like that.
I don’t know what to do now!! I’m so upset…now Tori said she’s not going to prom and going to go to her boyfriends prom at his school because she wants nothing to do with Rachel and is upset by what Rachel had done and wants to avoid drama. Tori invited me to go with her and her boyfriend to Virginia the day of our prom.
But…then Rachel said she had enough room for me in the limo and such on Wednesday the day I was buying the tickets so now I am going to prom! But I’m still upset by what happened. She wouldn’t Allow Tori to come but Tori said she doesn’t care anymore because all of this is childish drama that she refuses to get involved in.
VERY VERY VERY VERY VERY UPSET!! please!!! read (crying)?
wtf!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! abraham lincoln is white.i really hope this is a joke.
Reply:It seens like you go to a big school so you should find new friends that will stay true to you. I hope that this will all blow over soon.
Reply:i think you should NEVER EVER EVER again talk to rachel, she is such a *********.. i mean while you were being a good friend and all she was backstabbing you.. ugh.. i think you should apologize to tori but dont expect her to forgive you.. it hurts to find out that your friend wouldnt believe you. but hey i dont blame you.. its really hard to tell whos lying and telling the truth, only in the end the truth will surface.. then you gotta fix the problem.. jst apologize to tori and delete rachel from your life. i know its hard. but you have to do it.. move on. but if she wants to be friends with you say.. "ok" dont do anything bad to her.. maybe just greet her when she greets you but dont get close with her anymore.. learn from your mistake. trusting her. then just maybe make a letter to tori pointing out your mistake and how shes been a good friend.. etc.. if she wont talk to you then.. maybe.. um.. look for another friend. i know its hard but anyway youre going to college, you're gonna meet new people.. dont let your past experience affect the things you can be in the future.. take care ok? next time choose your friends carefully.. oh yeah.. you should watch "the pursuit of happyness" it really made me think and get a drive to be determined to reach my dreams.. :P take care.. goodluck!
Reply:try making new friends, they will be better!
Reply:Tori will forgive you. She is your true friend. She hurt and rightly so. Give her a cool down time. APOLOGIZE APOLOGIZE APOLOGIZE!!! She feels she was always a true friend and they are VERY hard to come by. Let her forgive you. Im pretty sure she will. Ask if theres anything you can do to help mend the friend and most importantly, see that she now has your best interests in mind and listen to her advice when she sees someone is snaking you.
Reply:Sounds like I got in on the middle of a BAD movie!
Reply:these dont sound like mates to me get rid of them you will find other friends you cant stay mates with these two girls because it sounds like there both stirring things just to get you to fall out with one of them wen u go to college you will find new and better friends let me know wat happens
Reply:I know how you feel iv done the same Thing And My best friend had told every one that i hit her even though It wasn't on perpes. I never felt so Humiuated In my Hole intier life because of that time i hit her.... I still fell sad. Also i still think she has a huge Broose From it :( But she Never Belived me that i was sorry And im 9 years old!! And She was 8. When i Hit Her(Not On perpes) She told my teacher and i told her that it wasen't On perpes. But she said -You cant Hit some one By Accident and now you have Detention for Two Monthes. Then i said THATS just PUIR HARSH! When I said That she Called my Mom and i got to trouble again. Of course i forgot what had happend. And My best friend Never Talked to me again. But i did. Each Morning I said i was sorry. But owno She woulden't Lissen to me. she was my almost girlfriend too.(-I hope you feel Better one day Me too-) And I Better let you Get back to what you where Doing And thank you for taking the time to Read this.... :)
Reply:This is the most incredible stuff I've ever read. Grow up. Tori was right. It's immature and childish drama, and you did not "accidentally" take a swing at her. Oh, and Abraham Lincoln was white.
Reply:See,you have the answer,get new friends.Friends that care for you honey.
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PLEASE I'M SO UPSET RIGHT NOW PLEASE!! i'm sorry i didn't mean for it to be this long i just need to let this all out!
PLEASE TAKE THE TIME TO READ THIS PLEASE!! I AM CRYING SO MUCH I CAN BARLEY TYPE!!!!
I have two best friends "Tori" and "Rachel." I'm a senior in high school. Tori and i got into a fight in the beginning of the year. She made fun of me because i thought Abraham Lincoln was black! (HE IS BLACK!!) I know i am right! I accident "swung at her" and hit her in the face. She had to get ice but it was on accident. I apologized to her about a million times. After that she went around to the whole school and told everyone how I had hit her and people have been making fun of me ever since! I am crying all the time because of that! Anyways recently within the past month she did apologize for her actions and has been sticking up for me quite a bit.
…this is where all of the problems start…Tori, Rachel, and I was all supposed to go to prom together with a group of other people! We had to buy tickets this week. Rachel Told me Tori and her boyfriend and everyone else to buy tickets on Wednesday. That was the last day to buy tickets. We all agreed to bring our money then. Tuesday while we were walking up to the field house for track practice Rachel was talking really badly about Tori calling her dumb and etc. Little did we realize that Tori was right behind us. So we get into the field house and Rachel dropped the bomb on me that neither me nor Tori nor her boyfriend were invited to prom anymore. She told us that she had already filled her table with 10 people, the limo was full and the hotel was booked already. She apologized for forgetting to tell us all of this. I was crying hysterically. I don’t have many friends and Rachel is my only one true friend. Now at that time I couldn’t go to prom because of it.
Tori then flipped out at Rachel and told her that she heard everything that she had said about her while we were walking to the field house. She then told me that Rachel was talking really really badly about me! She told me that Rachel said she did not want to go to the college she got into because she found out I would be attending there too. Tori then admitted that she had not always been the “best friend to me” but was recently sticking up for me. (WHICH SHE HAS BEEN) and that’s the truth. Any who Rachel denies ever saying that. She told me why she would ever say a thing like that if she was rooming with me at college. Which makes sense? Rachel then said she hadn’t always said “nice” things about me but she would never say anything like that.
I don’t know what to do now!! I’m so upset…now Tori said she’s not going to prom and going to go to her boyfriends prom at his school because she wants nothing to do with Rachel and is upset by what Rachel had done and wants to avoid drama. Tori invited me to go with her and her boyfriend to Virginia the day of our prom.
But…then Rachel said she had enough room for me in the limo and such on Wednesday the day I was buying the tickets so now I am going to prom! But I’m still upset by what happened. She wouldn’t Allow Tori to come but Tori said she doesn’t care anymore because all of this is childish drama that she refuses to get involved in.
VERY VERY VERY VERY VERY UPSET!! please!!! read (crying)?
wtf!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! abraham lincoln is white.i really hope this is a joke.
Reply:It seens like you go to a big school so you should find new friends that will stay true to you. I hope that this will all blow over soon.
Reply:i think you should NEVER EVER EVER again talk to rachel, she is such a *********.. i mean while you were being a good friend and all she was backstabbing you.. ugh.. i think you should apologize to tori but dont expect her to forgive you.. it hurts to find out that your friend wouldnt believe you. but hey i dont blame you.. its really hard to tell whos lying and telling the truth, only in the end the truth will surface.. then you gotta fix the problem.. jst apologize to tori and delete rachel from your life. i know its hard. but you have to do it.. move on. but if she wants to be friends with you say.. "ok" dont do anything bad to her.. maybe just greet her when she greets you but dont get close with her anymore.. learn from your mistake. trusting her. then just maybe make a letter to tori pointing out your mistake and how shes been a good friend.. etc.. if she wont talk to you then.. maybe.. um.. look for another friend. i know its hard but anyway youre going to college, you're gonna meet new people.. dont let your past experience affect the things you can be in the future.. take care ok? next time choose your friends carefully.. oh yeah.. you should watch "the pursuit of happyness" it really made me think and get a drive to be determined to reach my dreams.. :P take care.. goodluck!
Reply:try making new friends, they will be better!
Reply:Tori will forgive you. She is your true friend. She hurt and rightly so. Give her a cool down time. APOLOGIZE APOLOGIZE APOLOGIZE!!! She feels she was always a true friend and they are VERY hard to come by. Let her forgive you. Im pretty sure she will. Ask if theres anything you can do to help mend the friend and most importantly, see that she now has your best interests in mind and listen to her advice when she sees someone is snaking you.
Reply:Sounds like I got in on the middle of a BAD movie!
Reply:these dont sound like mates to me get rid of them you will find other friends you cant stay mates with these two girls because it sounds like there both stirring things just to get you to fall out with one of them wen u go to college you will find new and better friends let me know wat happens
Reply:I know how you feel iv done the same Thing And My best friend had told every one that i hit her even though It wasn't on perpes. I never felt so Humiuated In my Hole intier life because of that time i hit her.... I still fell sad. Also i still think she has a huge Broose From it :( But she Never Belived me that i was sorry And im 9 years old!! And She was 8. When i Hit Her(Not On perpes) She told my teacher and i told her that it wasen't On perpes. But she said -You cant Hit some one By Accident and now you have Detention for Two Monthes. Then i said THATS just PUIR HARSH! When I said That she Called my Mom and i got to trouble again. Of course i forgot what had happend. And My best friend Never Talked to me again. But i did. Each Morning I said i was sorry. But owno She woulden't Lissen to me. she was my almost girlfriend too.(-I hope you feel Better one day Me too-) And I Better let you Get back to what you where Doing And thank you for taking the time to Read this.... :)
Reply:This is the most incredible stuff I've ever read. Grow up. Tori was right. It's immature and childish drama, and you did not "accidentally" take a swing at her. Oh, and Abraham Lincoln was white.
Reply:See,you have the answer,get new friends.Friends that care for you honey.
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{Day 14 pt. 2} BHM Appreciation Thread ..Literature (Who Am I)?
Throughout history, there have been many books written that have heavily influenced african american literature and those who wish to enrich themselves thru their stories...So here, i have several clues describing a character (they may be a real person or not) from a prominent book in black history..so, without trying to look them up, see if you can identify any..Name the character AND the book he/she is from.
1.) I was born in South Africa during apartheid...I came to the United States on a tennis scholarship, I attended 3 different colleges over the course of one year, I faced alot of adversity coming to America and adjusting to the culture..The story of my life has been seen on Oprah, and read by millions of people worldwide..(HINT: this book was a sequel)..Who Am I? and what book am I from?
2.) I am a very noble slave..in 1830, i escaped slavery by going to Canada where I would help other slaves escape too..During most of my time in slavery, I was overly obsessive in pleasing the white man %26lt;%26lt;%26lt; HINT.. and another Hint, this book created a huge stir, particularly in the south...Who Am I? and what book am I from?
3.) I was a slave (a cook to be exact) on my master's plantation..I had two baby girls who were sold away from me at birth..I had another daughter, who translated, the name means "you stay put". I was married to someone who's had one of the most mentioned slave names in history..Who Am I? and what book am I from?
{Day 14 pt. 2} BHM Appreciation Thread ..Literature (Who Am I)?
1. Mark Mathabane-Kaffir Boy
2. Uncle Tom-Uncle Tom's Cabin
3. ?
Reply:1. Kaffir Boy-Mark Mathabane
2.Uncle Toms Cabin-Eliza
3.Roots-Bell Walker
Reply:Hmmmm... Kunta Kinte's wife? I can't remember her name... Though I do know their daughter's name was Kizzy, and it means 'Stay put.'
IDK, I think.
EDIT: Lol, I was thinking Uncle Tom's Cabin also... Just don't know the character he's talking about.
Reply:I stopped reading relevant s hit along time ago begro....
get with the times
reading is dead
orthodontists
1.) I was born in South Africa during apartheid...I came to the United States on a tennis scholarship, I attended 3 different colleges over the course of one year, I faced alot of adversity coming to America and adjusting to the culture..The story of my life has been seen on Oprah, and read by millions of people worldwide..(HINT: this book was a sequel)..Who Am I? and what book am I from?
2.) I am a very noble slave..in 1830, i escaped slavery by going to Canada where I would help other slaves escape too..During most of my time in slavery, I was overly obsessive in pleasing the white man %26lt;%26lt;%26lt; HINT.. and another Hint, this book created a huge stir, particularly in the south...Who Am I? and what book am I from?
3.) I was a slave (a cook to be exact) on my master's plantation..I had two baby girls who were sold away from me at birth..I had another daughter, who translated, the name means "you stay put". I was married to someone who's had one of the most mentioned slave names in history..Who Am I? and what book am I from?
{Day 14 pt. 2} BHM Appreciation Thread ..Literature (Who Am I)?
1. Mark Mathabane-Kaffir Boy
2. Uncle Tom-Uncle Tom's Cabin
3. ?
Reply:1. Kaffir Boy-Mark Mathabane
2.Uncle Toms Cabin-Eliza
3.Roots-Bell Walker
Reply:Hmmmm... Kunta Kinte's wife? I can't remember her name... Though I do know their daughter's name was Kizzy, and it means 'Stay put.'
IDK, I think.
EDIT: Lol, I was thinking Uncle Tom's Cabin also... Just don't know the character he's talking about.
Reply:I stopped reading relevant s hit along time ago begro....
get with the times
reading is dead
orthodontists
Thursday, November 19, 2009
Have you been with your Husband since you were 16? or younger?
I think I've fallen in love.
and i'm 15 He's older than me, he's 23
and he says he doesn't see me as young he sees me as a 20 year old becuase of the way i act,look and know.
We talk about having children and raising them,we talk about Lazy afternoons on sundays just cozing up in the bed watching piontless television or Black books or spaced.
We text allot, and i'm serious about it.
Can i ask you something, I'm having slight doubts, Like i'm gonna go to college next year and i think i might find someone else, but then i remember him,his face,his smell his funny personality and it makes me feel
Well screw the college boys, I love him.
He's everything i've ever wanted in a boy, and looks it aswell.
I dont know whats eating at me?
Any ideas?
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Oh and dont worry I'm a virgin and i'm very strict on that, He says he will wait becuase he can, he lost his V in his teens and knows what its like
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Have you been with your Husband since you were 16? or younger?
My wife was my next door neighbor we first met has children at the age of 5 for me and 3 for her. Time passed and yes we did get married and we at still together in our fifty's.
Reply:You are only 15, you are not in love with him, he is only telling you what you want to hear, he sees you young, ofcourse he is going to say that you are more mature for your age, he will treat you like a women. You should be going out with your friends, going to the cinema etc, doing what other teenagers are doing. You need to stay away from him, you think you love him, but you don't, this guy seems to be very clever for you, i seriously say to you is that stay away from him, you are too young to be in love, you should be studying for your GCSE's, and if he cared about you, he would not do what he is doing to you. How do you know, if he hasn't got a girlfriend, or he could even be married. Stay away from him, you should tell your parents about him, he is a cradle snatcher.. I am advising you as a mother of two kids who are older than you, but he is not doing you any right, he is taking advantage you, you hear alot about teenagers running away with older men.. Please be careful
Reply:Nope
Reply:no only about 1 in 10 million - and you too yung for him anywahs - he's a baby molestor... call da cops!
Reply:For gods sake ur only young %26amp; he should be wiv someone his own age .
Wot u gona do wen u fall pregnant %26amp; ur aving to stay in every weekend to look after ur child wen all ur mates r all going out clubbing %26amp; U CANT!! so be carefull!!
Reply:I met my husband when I was 16yrs and he was 18ys old we married a year later, We are still to-gether and have just celebrated 53yrs of married life. Yes I still love him and he still loves me, and always will.
Reply:met my husband at 14 been married 30 years this year and dont regret a minuet everyone used to say it wont last we proved em all wrong ...Just be very careful and sure about what you are doing ....Good luck
Reply:18 and husband 25. :) still together married 35 years now.
Reply:go to college and see what happens he loves u he wait
and i'm 15 He's older than me, he's 23
and he says he doesn't see me as young he sees me as a 20 year old becuase of the way i act,look and know.
We talk about having children and raising them,we talk about Lazy afternoons on sundays just cozing up in the bed watching piontless television or Black books or spaced.
We text allot, and i'm serious about it.
Can i ask you something, I'm having slight doubts, Like i'm gonna go to college next year and i think i might find someone else, but then i remember him,his face,his smell his funny personality and it makes me feel
Well screw the college boys, I love him.
He's everything i've ever wanted in a boy, and looks it aswell.
I dont know whats eating at me?
Any ideas?
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Oh and dont worry I'm a virgin and i'm very strict on that, He says he will wait becuase he can, he lost his V in his teens and knows what its like
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Have you been with your Husband since you were 16? or younger?
My wife was my next door neighbor we first met has children at the age of 5 for me and 3 for her. Time passed and yes we did get married and we at still together in our fifty's.
Reply:You are only 15, you are not in love with him, he is only telling you what you want to hear, he sees you young, ofcourse he is going to say that you are more mature for your age, he will treat you like a women. You should be going out with your friends, going to the cinema etc, doing what other teenagers are doing. You need to stay away from him, you think you love him, but you don't, this guy seems to be very clever for you, i seriously say to you is that stay away from him, you are too young to be in love, you should be studying for your GCSE's, and if he cared about you, he would not do what he is doing to you. How do you know, if he hasn't got a girlfriend, or he could even be married. Stay away from him, you should tell your parents about him, he is a cradle snatcher.. I am advising you as a mother of two kids who are older than you, but he is not doing you any right, he is taking advantage you, you hear alot about teenagers running away with older men.. Please be careful
Reply:Nope
Reply:no only about 1 in 10 million - and you too yung for him anywahs - he's a baby molestor... call da cops!
Reply:For gods sake ur only young %26amp; he should be wiv someone his own age .
Wot u gona do wen u fall pregnant %26amp; ur aving to stay in every weekend to look after ur child wen all ur mates r all going out clubbing %26amp; U CANT!! so be carefull!!
Reply:I met my husband when I was 16yrs and he was 18ys old we married a year later, We are still to-gether and have just celebrated 53yrs of married life. Yes I still love him and he still loves me, and always will.
Reply:met my husband at 14 been married 30 years this year and dont regret a minuet everyone used to say it wont last we proved em all wrong ...Just be very careful and sure about what you are doing ....Good luck
Reply:18 and husband 25. :) still together married 35 years now.
Reply:go to college and see what happens he loves u he wait
School Burn Out?
I'm currently a junior in college with a Communications degree, and am facing a complete inability to study. I know we all go through funks like this, but mine has been a few months in the running now. It's to the point where I do not know if I will pass my classes anymore.
It's a terrible cycle, the less I study, the worse I do in my classes, so the less I want to look at my text books. I have never been this bad in school, infact, I have always been extremely good with my studies. I have also been doing summer classes and classes over breaks for the past three years. I know I am in major burn out mode. I also do not even know what I want to use my degree for becuase it prepares me for careers I do not want, but I do not know what else to declair. So there is no motivation to even study anymore. I try to study several times a day and fall asleep each time. I know it is not a problem with reading comprehension, as I am fine in anything that is not schoolwork. Any ideas?
School Burn Out?
I'm right there with you, I just had a conversation with my best friend how I thought it would be fun to drive a tractor. You need to take a break, look at winter break as a time to fall in love with what you are doing all over again. As for now I have to swim every day to convince myself to go to class. find something else to do, I take a sword fighting class. Do your best and I know you will be fine. Also remember to take pride in everything you do, and that your grades are a reflection of your own determination.
Reply:Okay you're banging you head against the wall.
There are simply two options.
1/. Knuckle down big time and forget everything else going on around you and really give it 101% with your school work.
OR
2/. Just drop out know to give yourself time to really think about what you want out of life both and school and in the future. You could get a job and save a little money while thinking about it all.
You have to choose what's best for you.
Sounds to me like you really aren't ready for the school choice at this stage though.
Reply:I am a full-time grad student pursuing a dual MPA/MBA program and I certainly feel your pain. There are a couple of options including taking time off and changing your major. The third is, of course, to keep on track and in your rut, but I don't imagine you want that. If you are going to change your major, mayhap something more generic (e.g. business) that can transfer almost anywhere.
To break my rut a bit, I teach Krav Maga classes and workout a lot (and I have a normal job as well). I also minimize my study time to just the amount that I need to learn what I must at that point in time. This may or may not work for you in the short run.
Best of luck!
Reply:I think the problem is that you lack motivation and have no set goals. Maybe you should take some time and critically evaluate what direction/field you want to be headed at career-wise. You need something to work towards. Try to figure out what you are truly interested in and want to do.
Reply:I'm stuck in Life Sciences, and I'm in the exact same situation. The only reasonable idea I've had so far is that I'm just in the wrong concentration, and this is definitely not what I should be doing in life. Consider what's interesting and makes you happy. Maybe you're better off switching to it.
Reply:Get a complete physical then talk to a therapist.
It's a terrible cycle, the less I study, the worse I do in my classes, so the less I want to look at my text books. I have never been this bad in school, infact, I have always been extremely good with my studies. I have also been doing summer classes and classes over breaks for the past three years. I know I am in major burn out mode. I also do not even know what I want to use my degree for becuase it prepares me for careers I do not want, but I do not know what else to declair. So there is no motivation to even study anymore. I try to study several times a day and fall asleep each time. I know it is not a problem with reading comprehension, as I am fine in anything that is not schoolwork. Any ideas?
School Burn Out?
I'm right there with you, I just had a conversation with my best friend how I thought it would be fun to drive a tractor. You need to take a break, look at winter break as a time to fall in love with what you are doing all over again. As for now I have to swim every day to convince myself to go to class. find something else to do, I take a sword fighting class. Do your best and I know you will be fine. Also remember to take pride in everything you do, and that your grades are a reflection of your own determination.
Reply:Okay you're banging you head against the wall.
There are simply two options.
1/. Knuckle down big time and forget everything else going on around you and really give it 101% with your school work.
OR
2/. Just drop out know to give yourself time to really think about what you want out of life both and school and in the future. You could get a job and save a little money while thinking about it all.
You have to choose what's best for you.
Sounds to me like you really aren't ready for the school choice at this stage though.
Reply:I am a full-time grad student pursuing a dual MPA/MBA program and I certainly feel your pain. There are a couple of options including taking time off and changing your major. The third is, of course, to keep on track and in your rut, but I don't imagine you want that. If you are going to change your major, mayhap something more generic (e.g. business) that can transfer almost anywhere.
To break my rut a bit, I teach Krav Maga classes and workout a lot (and I have a normal job as well). I also minimize my study time to just the amount that I need to learn what I must at that point in time. This may or may not work for you in the short run.
Best of luck!
Reply:I think the problem is that you lack motivation and have no set goals. Maybe you should take some time and critically evaluate what direction/field you want to be headed at career-wise. You need something to work towards. Try to figure out what you are truly interested in and want to do.
Reply:I'm stuck in Life Sciences, and I'm in the exact same situation. The only reasonable idea I've had so far is that I'm just in the wrong concentration, and this is definitely not what I should be doing in life. Consider what's interesting and makes you happy. Maybe you're better off switching to it.
Reply:Get a complete physical then talk to a therapist.
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